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Below are ‘Nods to priests who have made a favorable impression in someone’s life. It’s important to let our priests know they are appreciated, respected, and supported.

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Fr. Michael F. Duffy

A ‘Nod to you for your incredible dedication and service as a priest over all these years. What inspires me most is the way you went out of your way to learn Spanish so you could celebrate Mass and minister to those who might not have otherwise been reached. That kind of commitment — learning a whole new language to ensure everyone can experience God’s love — speaks volumes about your heart and the way you approach your vocation. Your example shows how faith isn’t just about routine or tradition, but about actively seeking ways to serve and meet people where they are. It’s a reminder of the impact a priest can have when ministry is guided by love, courage, and a willingness to grow.

Staff Submission
Source: https://catholicvirginian.org/news/faith-in-god-thats-what-propels-me-father-duffy-looks-forward-to-partial-retirement/

Fr. John McCarthy

I just want to say thank you for all the ways you’ve served — not just here in our parish, but also during your years in the Navy. That kind of dedication and commitment really shows in the way you lead and care for our community. It’s clear that your experience serving others has shaped how you approach your priesthood — with discipline, compassion, and a real sense of responsibility for the people around you. Being a part of this parish and seeing how you guide us, pray with us, and walk alongside us in our faith has made a real difference in my own spiritual journey. I’m grateful for your example, your leadership, and the way you make faith feel alive and personal for all of us.

Claire

Fr. Joe Krupp

Following your work through Joe In Black Ministries has been such a meaningful part of my faith journey. As someone who sometimes feels distant from the Church, your podcasts and videos have helped me feel seen, heard, and encouraged to explore God in my own life. You’ve shown that faith isn’t just about rules or rituals; it’s about connection, reflection, and finding God in everyday moments. Priests like you make that possible, and I’m so grateful for how your words, your perspective, and your example have guided me along the way.

Staff Submission
Source:https://www.joeinblackministries.com/about?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Fr. Mark Villano

I wanted to extend a ‘Nod to you Father for the work you do with OCIA and young adult ministry. Those spaces matter so much, especially for people who are asking real questions, coming back to faith, or figuring out what they actually believe — and having priests like you in those roles makes a huge difference. You have a way of meeting people where they are without talking down to them or over-complicating things. I also really appreciated Journey to Jerusalem — it’s such an approachable, thoughtful read, grounding Scripture in real life in a way that feels honest and human. It’s the kind of book you can sit with, reflect on, and actually come away changed. Thank you for showing up the way you do and for using your gifts to help people feel at home in the Church.

Mitchell

Fr. Casey Cole

Thank you for the way you use social media and your YouTube channel “Breaking the Habit” to meet people—especially young Catholics—right where they are. In a world where so many voices compete for attention, your Franciscan witness of simplicity, humility, joy, and honest conversation cuts through the noise and reminds people what the Gospel actually looks like lived out. Reaching young Catholics matters deeply right now, and what you’re doing helps make faith feel approachable, thoughtful, and real rather than distant or abstract. Your work reflects the heart of St. Francis: going out, not waiting to be found, and preaching Christ through presence and love.

Staff Submission

Fr. Allen Hoffa

Thank you immensely for all that you do for spouses who have a husband/wife with a sexual addiction.

I was that wife. I was married only ten years with 6 young children when I realized that my husband had a deeply hidden sexual addiction. I could have easily left my husband and taken the children with me, but through the grace of God, and the spiritual direction of a solid priest, I persevered for another 20 years in a celibate marriage, praying constantly for my husband. I knew that had I left, my children would be high- risk for all kinds of trouble.

I recall the Priest saying, “if your husband had a physical illness, say cancer, would you care for him?”

I answered arguably, “yes, but this is different!.”

Through the guidance of a dear priest, I relied on God, daily Mass, mental prayer, spiritual reading and the Rosary as my guide.

We were married 30 years when my husband died of a heart attack. I was able to get a priest to give him his last rites.

I cannot tell you how grateful I am to that priest and to God for giving me the grace of perseverance.

I hear of so many young wives that leave their husbands – oh, how I wish I could counsel them to stay and carry the cross. I had a friend who was in a similar circumstance and she left her husband. Years later, after their divorce and after he passed away, she confided in me that she wished she had stayed. Her children were lost and suffered tremendously.

I am a youthful 63 year old who has the love and affection of all of my children and now grandchildren. Please, please encourage women to stay the course – and wait for the resurrection.

I actually wrote the entire story into a book – I should try and publish it. Who knows, maybe some solid producer will make it into a movie.

Lastly, all the actors, actresses, film crew, photographers, etc. that have driven people into sex addiction – may God help them.

Angela

Fr. Bryan J. Carney

I don’t even know where to begin to thank you for the incredible care and support you give families during one of the most difficult times of their lives. From the very first moment you step into the hospital room, it’s clear that you are the kind of chaplain who truly meets people where they are—without judgment and with patience.  The way you guide people through the prayers, offers comfort, and helps those feel God’s presence in that moment bringing a peace and hope that are difficult to put into words.  Not only does your ministry provide comfort to family members, but it also touched me deeply on a personal level.  It made me realize just how essential chaplains are—not just in our churches, but in hospitals, where people are vulnerable, scared, and searching for hope.  Thank you for your unwavering dedication, your gentleness, and your ability to make God’s love so tangible in moments of fear and uncertainty. Your presence brings light in a dark time, and your example has strengthened my own faith in ways I will carry with me forever.

Gene
Source: https://thetablet.org/medjugorje-marian-apparitions-vatican-claims-vatican-queens-chaplain/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Fr. Michael J. Bartholomew

Thank you for being the kind of priest you are—so caring, welcoming, and genuinely devoted to everyone in your parish. The way you guide and support people, while building a community centered on the Eucharist, really makes a difference in all our lives. I’m especially grateful for everything you do for the Spanish-speaking Catholic community, helping everyone feel seen, valued, and connected to God. Thank you for all the time and heart you pour into your ministry—it’s clear how much you care and how much of a positive impact you have on all of us.

Maria
Source:https://suffolktimes.timesreview.com/2023/08/sacred-heart-parish-welcomes-two-new-priests/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Fr. Thomas Fallati

I just want to extend a ‘Nod to you for everything you do to support other priests and guide those figuring out their own call to the priesthood. Hearing your story — how you felt God’s call, spent years in law, and then stepped fully into the priesthood — is so inspiring. Even though you’re not practicing law anymore, it’s amazing how that experience shows up in your ministry, giving you insight and perspective that make such a difference. The way you care for priests and parishioners alike really shows how God can use every part of our lives for His work, and I feel so grateful to witness that through you

Mack
Source:https://evangelist.org/news/2024/may/01/last-steps-of-the-journey/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Fr. Chris Ballard

I just want to take a moment to thank you for all the amazing work you do for your parish and the wider community. The way you pour yourself into outreach and stay involved in people’s lives really shows how much you care, and it’s inspiring to see. You’re such a true teacher, not just to parishioners, but to other priests, leading by example and showing how faith can be shared in meaningful, practical ways. I love how your ministry is so engaging — the way you listen, have real conversations, and guide people through their journey of faith makes a huge impact. Your dedication and approach leave a lasting impression, not just on parishioners but on anyone who has the chance to learn from you. Thank you for being such a steady, compassionate presence and for helping so many of us grow in our faith.

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